Don’t Discard Seniors

To the Editor:

Isn’t it heartbreaking that there is so much controversy regarding the Children’s Adventure Center and the Senior Center in Newtown?

On one side is a new generation not yet starting to know the great adventures that they will encounter through their lifetime. They need care, love, and guidance. They can’t do so by themselves so caretakers are necessary.

The other portion of the building is occupied by the seniors. They are the older generation and are in their twilight years. Time is short and precious. Like the youngsters next door they also need love and care. These are not wealthy seniors and most have medical problems and some are handicapped in some ways. Sight is limited for some, they cannot drive anymore so have to rely on others or the bus to transport them to the center. For some this is a second home. It provides companionship, entertainment, and socialization. This is so important at this time of life. They play cards, take trips and don’t fault them for this because it’s the only way they are able to see and get to places they cannot get to anymore by themselves.

I’ve seen new seniors come in who are so depressed they won’t talk or take part in any activities or socialize in any way. After a time they start talking to others, try crafts, and join in the activities provided there. It’s so great to see the real person that was in that shell. It makes you feel good just seeing and watching the improvement.

Remember these seniors have really seen and lived life. They have been through five wars and have always supported this country. Don’t discard them now. They now need you. If it wasn’t for the center most of these people would be alone in their homes and be isolated from human contact and have no one to interact with, thus becoming lonely and depressed. So please give the seniors more room and make their few remaining years as pleasant as possible. It would be a gracious thing to do and the seniors will be ever grateful for your generosity.

This could be your mother or father, and when you become a senior you’ll realize how important all this is.

Virginia Parsloe

15 Lyrical Lane, Sandy Hook                                 February 28, 2004